it's been a long time inda berblogging.. currently busy with my work and si dia..
about him.. mula kenal ea since hujung bulan oktober 2009 and kami berkawan inda sampai seminggu..

after that.. o 3rd november 2009 atu, ea mempropose so i just accept him la.. because masa atu jua i can feel both of us feeling in love with each other..

it's been a year couple with him.. not only 1 year but more than 1 year..

and today is our 16th monthsary.. he's sleeping right now.. while me tryin to update this blog.. haiya... berkulat sudah blog ku.. banartah  ^_^

last but not least.. i wanna say happy 16th monthsary to my beloved boyfriend yang masa ane nyaman dah tidonya... hehe.. and i want to let you know that i love my man very much. 

May I Borrow Your B$. 25?

A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her 5-year old son waiting for her at the door. 

SON: 'Mummy, may I ask you a question?' 

MUM: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the woman. 

SON: 'Mummy, how much do you make an hour?' 

MUM: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the woman said angrily. 

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?' 

MUM: 'If you must know, I make    B$. 50 an hour.' 

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down. 

SON: 'Mummy, may I please borrow B$.25?' 

The mother was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.' 

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.. 

The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? 

After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down , and started to think:  

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.25.00 and she really didn't ask for money very often.The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door. 

'Are you asleep, son?' She asked. 

'No Mummy, I'm awake,' replied the boy. 

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the woman. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the B$.25 you asked for.' 

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you Mummy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. 

The woman saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. 

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother. 

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the mother grumbled. 

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied. 

'Mummy, I have B$.50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.' 

The mother was crushed. She put his arms around her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness. 

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that B$.50 worth of your time with someone you love. 

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

Just Beyond Impossible.

When it seems like everything is breaking down, the time is
Ripe for a real breakthrough. In turmoil there is great
Opportunity.

When the only choice is to find a new way forward, you're in
A great position to find that way. When you have nothing
Left to fall back on, you'll figure out how to move ahead.

What seems impossible is impossible only from your current
Perspective. Just beyond impossible is the chance to jump up
To a higher level.

Imagine what you could accomplish if you were ten times as
Effective as you are right now. When circumstances are
Compelling enough, you are completely capable of making such
A leap.

What challenges you, improves you. Whatever challenges you
To the extreme can push you into a breakthrough.

Are you ready to move beyond impossible? Make your reasons
Meaningful enough, so that you have no other choice, and you
Will.
 ~Ralph Marston~

The Power of Our Thoughts

Thoughts carry tremendous creative power.

 Consciously or not, before every spoken word,

 there is a thought.

 In the same way, there is a thought proceeding every action.

Since thoughts shape our words and behaviors, they inevitably

 shape our environment, relationships and destiny.

As part of our unique human power, our higher reasoning process

 separates us from other species.

 With our birth gifts of higher thoughts, inventions are made and

 modern civilization becomes a reality.

Unfortunately, most of us do not utilize the power of thoughts effectively.

Instead of managing our thoughts positively and using them to create a

 better reality, we have become powerless with our thoughts.

 For example, how many of us catch ourselves daydreaming often and

 allow our mind to wonder from places to places without much control?

 On the other hand, how many of us try to control our lives ineffectively by

 allowing repetitively negative thoughts to dominate our mind

 such as worrying obsessively.

 Without learning to master the power of our thoughts, no wonder

 we feel anxious and depressed most of the time!

The power of our thoughts truly deserves our better attention

as the quality of our thoughts determines the quality of our life.

 Negative thoughts create negative state of mind; therefore,

 they produce negative actions following by negative results.

 This sounds bad, doesn’t it? The good news is that in the same way,

 high quality thoughts create high quality state of mind; therefore,

 they produce positive actions and wonderful and positive results.

 Isn’t this a great incentive for us to pay attention and learn to

 monitor our thoughts carefully?

A good exercise is to start paying attention to the quality of our thoughts for a day.

 Your job is to reject any negative or limited thoughts as soon as they surface.

 Any “I can’t” or “too” judgments are out of the windows immediately.

 You might be surprised by how many negative thoughts you think daily.

 You might also discover that some of these thoughts are not even originally yours!

What a relief! When I first started this exercise, I noticed that there were

 more negative thoughts than positive ones.

 Most of the negative thoughts were not even valid.

 Unfortunately, they had become part of my “thinking habits”.

 Eventually,

 I learned that the price I had paid for my habitual negative thoughts

were way too high as they robbed away my happiness and my ability

 to create a good life.

Becoming conscious of the power of our thoughts is a necessity to improve

 the quality of our lives. Starting today, pay good attention to your thought quality.

 Use the power of your thoughts to create a good life because it is your birth right!

 As each of us becomes more conscious and becomes the master of our mind,

 we together can use our mind in creating more beauty,

 joy and goodness in the world.

SEKADAR PERINGATAN UNTUK SEMUA UMAT ISLAM.....

Ilmu utk dikongsi bersama :
Pagi semlm dengar radio ikim (91.50 fm), ustaz Zawawi citer tentang sunnah Rasulallah s.a.w.
Antaranya tentang bab memberi salam.
Baginda memberi salam dgn lafaz "assalamualaikum" dan menjawab salam
dari para sahabat dgn salam yg penuh "waalaikumussalam warahmatulallahhi wabarakatuh"

Beri salam - assalamualaikum"
Jawab salam - "waalaikumussalam warahmatulallah hi wabarakatuh"

Apabila kira berkirim salam pada org lain, hendaklah kita berkata "Kirim salam assalamualaikum pada ZIZAH  ye" contoh lerr...
Bukannya : "Kirim salam kat  ZIZAH  ye"

Dan bukannya " Kirim salam maut" statement ini adalah berdosa, walaupun sekadar gurauan!

Semoga ada manfaat. 

"Akum = Avde Kokhavim U Mazzalot"
Maksud singkatan " A'kum"

Untuk renungan bersama :

Janganlah kita menggantikan perkataan
"Assalamualaikum" dengan "A'kum" dalam sms atau apa sekalipu melalui tulisan..
Jika perkataan Assalamualaikum itu panjang, maka hendaklah kita ganti dengan perkataan
"As Salam" iaitu sama makna dengan Assalamualaikum.
Sesama lah kita memberitahu member-member yang selalu sangat guna
shortform A'kum dalam sms ataupun email. Perkataan 'AKUM' adalah gelaran untuk orang-orang
Yahudi untuk orang-orang bukan yahudi yang bermaksud 'BINATANG' dalam Bahasa Ibrani. 

Ia singkatan daripada perkataan 'Avde Kokhavim U Mazzalot' yang
bermaksud 'HAMBA-HAMBA BINATANG DAN ORANG-ORANG SESAT'.
Mulai sekarang jika ada orang hantar shortform "A'kum", kita ingatkan
dia guna "As Salam" kerana salam ialah dari perkataan Assalamualaikum.
Semoga ada manfaatnya.

JIKA ANDA TIDAK KEBERATAN, FORWARD LAH CERITA KEPADA TEMAN TEMAN MU,
KERANA SESUNGGUHNYA ILMU YANG BERMANFAAT ITU, AKAN ABADI JIKA DIAMALKAN.

kalau ada kemuskilan berjumpalah yg pakar dlm bidang ni.......

My Girl episode 3

Episode 3

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